That's right, see ya later, cast!
When Caden's cast was put on, we were told he would be in it 4-6 weeks. Based on the location of the break and his age, I was prepared for 6 weeks in the cast. We knew that he would not be able to get a walking cast because of how high the break was. On June 26, we went in for a check-up. I had been praying for miraculous bone growth because everyone was ALL DONE with the cast. I was tired of carrying him and he was tired of crawling. My back was killing me and his good leg looked like hamburger because it was so bruised and scratched up. When he needed to go anywhere we would just look at each other as if to say, "Who's going to give first?" More than anything, he just wanted his freedom back. Two nights before his check up he very pathetically said to me, "Mommy, please take my cast off. I just want to run!" Sigh. I was hopeful but I really thought that there was no way it was coming off.
We knew that the check-up would involve an x-ray and we thought they were going to do it through the cast again, but instead decided to take it off so they could get a really good picture.
This brought back terrifying memories of the first night we were in there and he had to straighten out his leg for the x-ray. Let's just say Caden was NOT a member of the "No-Cry Club" this time. Poor guy was so scared that it was going to hurt again. We got a good look at his puny little leg and I was able to (gently!) smooch it again.
Here is a comparison of his x-rays:
The right one was taken May 26, and the puny one on the left was taken on June 26
The ortho doc surprised us by saying that even though she could still see a little line on the x-ray where the break was, she felt like it would heal better with the cast off so blood could flow and the muscles could move around. We were given strict instructions to take it easy for the next 3 weeks - no running, jumping, climbing, or wrestling. Basically, he needed to keep his feet on the ground or in the water. She said that he would have a significant limp for awhile, but in three weeks he should be well on his way back to normal.
I was not prepared for that. I was terrified.
I didn't need to worry, he wouldn't put ANY weight on it. He wouldn't walk and he wouldn't crawl. He scooted around on his bum or asked to be carried (at least he was lighter without the cast!). Once we were home a few hours, we noticed that his ankle was really bruised, swollen, and scratched up.
After a call to the doctor to calm my fears of an injured ankle, we determined that he had been banging his ankle into the cast while he crawled around for the last month (every once in awhile he would complain of his ankle hurting) and he had a deep tissue bruise. It was very painful!
Good thing this kid is tough!
He scooted around for days. He cried anytime we tried to get him to walk. I had visions of carrying him to college...
At least we got to swim! Some people may call this "playing," but we call it physical therapy!
Ashy loved PT too!
And then suddenly, he started to try it and trust that his leg would hold him. One week after having his cast removed, he was really beginning to do it!
He is now walking more than he is crawling! He's very slow and walks with a very noticeable limp and his left foot turned out to the side (all normal at this point).
This has been very eye opening for both Jeremy and I. When Caden walks in public, we have noticed very nice, well-intentioned people staring at him. You can almost hear the wheels in their heads turning - "What's wrong with that kid? Is it permanent?" No one has ever said anything, and Caden doesn't seem to notice, but I do. I now have a 1% understanding of what parents with special needs kiddos experience everyday. I just want to put a big sign on him that says, "Just got a cast removed. He's perfect and will be walking again soon!" I can't imagine what it must feel like to experience that all the time and know that the injury will not be healed in a few weeks. I guess this is just one more thing I have learned through this experience!
And, to end on a ridiculous note, while we were getting Caden's cast removed he said, "Next time I get a cast I want a blue one!"
Next time?!? Ummm...NO WAY!!!
And, to end on a ridiculous note, while we were getting Caden's cast removed he said, "Next time I get a cast I want a blue one!"
Next time?!? Ummm...NO WAY!!!
1 comment:
Yep, the heads turning and people staring at the way Joey walks sometimes bothers me. It's saddens me that he will never have a strong leg. His broke when he was 6 months old and again at 3 years old and chances are, it'll happen again. The first words out of the first orthopedics mouth when I brought him in at 6 months old was 'This leg is the worst I've seen and since you'll end up amputating anyway we should just go ahead and do it now"
He is six years old and will likely wear a brace for the rest of his life but he has his leg. That might change one day but he has his leg and for that I'm thankful.
He also walks with his leg off to the side and turned outward.
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